It's Time To Rock; Part I

[gr8 day 2B alive]

CS,

I was ready to reply to you the other day but your thread was locked and you didn't start a new one. So let me regain my thoughts on this:
I think I was afraid to post it, I know it will not be popular, but sent my W the following this morning after the OM's CW called:

"OM's CW left me a message. She wanted to know if you two were living together. I will not return the message. I am very uncomfortable with D in this situation. I really hope you are not subjecting her to your affair. I am worried about what OM's CW could be capable of. I trust you to use good judgement through this."

I won't post it verbatim, but she just responded ensuring me D was safe. No answer as to whether they are living together, or what she subjects our D to.

A little bit later she sends me a message asking how I am feeling and letting me know that D is doing well and she is planting flowers on her patio.

How special for her.

I guess with the last message I at least didn't P her off at me. But I am not responding any more, she is on her own with this craziness. I have to decide whether I believe this is a dangerous situation or not for our D, and if so take action, if not, let it go.

Meaning of Safe
from what what?OM W?
Or safe from being exposed to a predator who goes after M women to break up families?
I would not allow my kids to be exposed to this. IMO

Now with all the latest events.
To say the least your W doesn't know what she wants.
And for you to be head over heels with the attention she is showing you will only leave you disappointed.

She shows you ONE act of kindness and you fall to pieces thinking it's the turning point.

Let her continue to text you all she wants. She playing both sides right now.

Remember to think process and then act.

Also all her texts are using your D in them. She using her to get a response from you.
You will know when she really means to be nice to you.

Be strong, don't make the all too common mistake of thinking everything is OK.
gr8