I think it was a good move. Dwelling on the hurts of the past is not healthy, but realizing what you did, how it affected her and apologizing for it was a great example of validating.
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011