Hey Sparks14, It is okay to feel the way you are feeling. I saw my daughter this weekend and i went through the same feeling of "why us" and "why my daughter". But sometimes you just gotta know that this is life and we try to stand up and move. For me personally my thoughts have fully moved to my daughter only. The only way i can stop from feeling miserable thinking about my daughter is to be there fully for her. every step of the way. Maybe you need to tell yourself the same thing. Then you'll have a goal of being there for your son. And you can always try to meet that goal.


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M 38
W 36
D 7
Married 15 yrs
W left for 6 months in 2009
W Filed for D 01/03/11
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