Hello, and welcome, onMyWay. Makes me think of a song that seems to resonate with me lately "Here I go again, on my own ... down the only road I've ever known"
So .... first off ... we're with you. You're not going thru this alone. Secondly .... you've done GREAT considering what you've had to deal with. 3rd .... you seem to be much farther down this road than me, but I'm sure you know by now that we find that the WAW's have a 1-2- punch. That is, they might give you some positive vibes (like questioning whether splitting is right) and then ... they usually pull back and act like crazy B's again. So, don't be surprised if you see this.
You and I are in the same place, in some ways. My W hasn't left yet. But, I'm almost looking forward to her going. At the moment, I'm not sure I could ever respect a woman that did this to her family. Leaving me is one thing ... causing our daughters to go thru this and possibly live in 2 houses ... that's unforgivable. I think that is pretty much exactly what you said as well. I don't know the answer here, and I guess only time will tell.
Anyway .... sorry you're here man .. but glad to have you!! As we discussed on my thread .. this is the SUCK ... but it won't kill you.
B.I.T.S
Formerly known as onStepAtATime Me:31 W:31 T:13 yrs M:8 yrs D: 20 months ILYBNILWY: 9/22/10 "I want a separation" 1/05/11