Abbey, Your husband is having his cake and eating it too. My husband cheated on me and moved out. I let him cake eat badly because I was so afraid it would push him a way further.
You are right! Two years ago when my H told me that one of his issues was that I never initiated sex, I thought my 180 would be to initiate more. So....have been doing that. So, yes, he does have his cake and eat it too. I don't quite know how to resolve that one. I too feel that if I don't, it will push him even closer to OW to satisfy those needs.
You are playing with fire, Abbey -- literally, with your health. I'm not going to judge you for continuing to ML with a cheating spouse -- reaasonable people can (and do) disagree about that whole topic. But FOR GOD'S SAKE, USE PROTECTION!!!
