Today is Monday and she is moving out on Wednesday. That will be exactly 1 month since she told me she wanted a D. We are supposed to go to the lawyers to have the papers drawn up maybe this week or early next. I'm staying out of her way (even though she says I don't have to). I'm sure I will have a MAJOR cry on Wednesday night when I get home and then hopefully, that will be that last. I did offer to help her move if she needed it. I don't think she wants me help because I have a feeling the OM is going to help.
Working on me today. Going to go spend some money and make myself happy!
I'm sorry for what you are going thru. You reactions to all this is not out of the ordinary so don't beat yourself up.
The last line you typed should be your motto every day...at least the working on me today. Spending some money on yourself maybe not so much every day! ;-) Although, I would be a hypocrite if I said I wasn't a fan of some retail therapy!
Stay the course!
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M: 48, H: 42 Kids: 0 T: 20 yrs M: 16 yrs. (H's 1st, my 2nd) WAS/MLC: 12/7/09-I'm not the wife HE deserved Came home per L: 12/26/09, Left again: 2/6/10 Served: 10/21/10, D FINAL: 6/15/11
