Let Us Be Outstanding Together - 2

[zengypsy]

BM:

Just got caught up with your sitch. I'm gonna give you a slight 2X4 about sending your wife that txt again about finding someone new. What are you trying to accomplish by continuously telling her that? Of course she is going to be p'd off. I would be too if I were her. You are trying to call her bluff and it's not working. She doesn't want you or the M right now and if you keep this chatter up, you can forget this M ever standing a chance.

You also cannot keep pushing her about the DB Session. I know she had said she wanted to particpate, but she could've changed her mind which it sounds like she has. This may be due to your text message as well. You have to firmly decide whether you want to continue to DB or not whether the D happens or not. Use the session(s) for yourself. You can no longer count her participation. As True said, leave it up to her to reschedule or take a session for herself.

You have to detach better and stop over analyzing her every move and word. It hinders YOUR progress to commit to the change you seem to want and need.