The Lies and Deception Killing Me

[abbey1989]

Abbey,
Your husband is having his cake and eating it too. My husband cheated on me and moved out. I let him cake eat badly because I was so afraid it would push him a way further.

You are right! Two years ago when my H told me that one of his issues was that I never initiated sex, I thought my 180 would be to initiate more. So....have been doing that. So, yes, he does have his cake and eat it too. I don't quite know how to resolve that one. I too feel that if I don't, it will push him even closer to OW to satisfy those needs.

Thanks for the book recommendation. Will definitely read it.

Had a nice weekend w H up visiting son in college. Yesterday morning we took a beautiful hike in Montecito. Amazing city/ocean views. We talked and enjoyed each other's company. Very casual.

Now back to reality. Going to try to get caught up on my school work today. It has been so hard to focus.

Thanks for listening...