Brian,
Hang in there, buddy. Sounds like she is really in a hurry. My W is also in a hurry. However, I think I am competing against an idealized life rather than an OM. I feel your pain.

I find myself constantly vacillating between partnering with her on planning the D as a 180 versus trying to introduce delays to slow her down (and this is one of those things that DOESN'T work too well for me)

BITS
Me:46 / W:47 / M:19 / T:21 / S13
Bomb#1: 5/8/2008
MC: 5/2008 - 4/2010
Bomb#2: 2/10/2011
W moves out 5/7/2011

'With man this is impossible, but with God all things are possible.' - Matt. 19:26