Of course she will not show this to you. She isn't down just because you are. Her ups and downs are not in synch with yours.

DB tells us not to show being down, doubtful, or needy. This is unattractive.

We are to act as if we a calm, confident and in control. Much more attractive.

To some extent this is commons sense and some people have better instincts. Perhaps your W is one of those.

What she doesn't have is support from the people on this board. You do.

What she doesn't have is the advice from DB or DR. You do.

When she is geting what she wants, life is good, and she is confident.

When reality sets in and life isn’t quite as good she’ll cycle. The question is where will you be? What will you project? When this happens.

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Me 55, ACK, when did that happen? Doesn't feel like 55
D 30
S 27

You create your own universe as you go along - Winston Churchill