W and I got together late this afternoon. I had spoken with her on the phone and offered to help her help SS with some homework that he has accumulated due to the trip to Buffalo. So they came over to the house and we all worked on his homework for about 2 and a half hours.
After finishing up the homework, we decided to go out for dinner and a movie. Saw Battle Los Angeles, which was pretty good btw. I put my hand on W's knee during the movie. At one point SHE grabbed my hand and held it for about 15 minutes.
We drove back to my house. I walked them to her car, kissed W on lips goodbye, and told both W and SS that I loved them. W told me that she loved me too.
W texted me when she got home:
W: "Thanks for the nice evening. Goodnight!"
Me: "I had a lot of fun. I love you guys so much! Goodnight baby!"
W: "Thank you. goodnight!" -----
Not a whole lot new in the way of what happened. But what doesn't come across in my description of what we did together tonight is that W seemed very open to me... I did not feel that invisible hand coming from W tonight... There was some moments in Buffalo where I felt that the invisible hand disappeared, and even last night at the party for a few moments... but it has still been there. My W even told me last night that she felt that, for some reason, she felt that she needed to remain somewhat closed to me until we have things figured out. She even said that she didn't know why she feels this way. But I am feeling her feeling more comfortable with me all of the time. And I definitely felt it in our kiss goodnight... it was much more comfortable than it has been.
All in all, more progress ...
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M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
goodnight!"