I failed to stay strong and confident tonight when we were talking about the apt hunting. I will make sure that doesn't happen again.

I'm not sure how much I should include her in the apt search. I want her to know I'm trying but the more I talk the less confident I sound.

Does anyone have any advice on how to move out when you don't really want to?

Married 15 years
3 children 13, 12, 10
1st D bomb Jan 09
2nd D bomb Feb 11
I moved out June 11