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[Truegritter]

I say well, you know its too late to come back and she says that she has no intention of coming back.

9 is it too late? Why would you say this?

Anger? To punish her? Get her back for the heartache?

You better get in touch with what drove you to say this.

Cause it ain't getting either of you anywhere.

I tell her that I cant belive she fell for his line of BS, that she thought a man that screws around on his wife when she is pregnant is any kind of good man.

So she is mentally unstable and you are trying to reason with her?

Sorry man. Do you really understand your W?

I can think of at least 10 more reasons you can use to make her feel more f@cked up than she feels right now.

Like this one

So i say tongue firmly in cheek, you must be exstacic now since your are miserable.

Do you want her back right now?

In this condition?

Has she owned up to her choices and decided from a clear headed place?

IMO this is desperation on her part and you are going to make her grovel her way back.

Will you sacrifice your M again for this halfa$$ed attempt to R.

Is this what you imagined she would do when you are ready to take her back?

She is still being driven by her craziness/emotion.

9 let me be clear I am not saying you shouldn't be open to reconciling...

At any point. THAT will have to mean you are ready and so is she.

Your comments show me anger for what she has done.

Not blaming you BUT it ain't gonna help her.

Or you.

And her. I see a lot of confusion and emotional/psychological instability.

How long will her "feeling" to reconcile last unless

She has truly looked at herslef and owned up to what SHE needs to do to be happy and be responsible for that.

IDK man.

I am not buying it.