When I dropped kids off at home today I told W that I had basketball game tonight and wanted to take all three of my kids to it. It was last game of year and kids having been asking to go for last few weeks. Through out our M I have played in leagues before and if all kids go to games, W would also. She has said in past that she really didn't like to go to games because all she does is chase kids around.
Well I told W I would be at house a half hour before game started to pick kids up. An hour before game time she calls and says that I don't have to pick up kids because she is going to go. I never asked her and never implied that I wanted her to go. Didn't get a chance to talk to her much (cause I was to busy losing) but when I did I was cheerful and laid back. Any chance I got during game to interact with my kids I did. After it was over I walked them to her car, told kids goodnight and thanked all for coming. They left.
I will not read anything into this. There is a million reasons to why she went. She could have been concerned about the kids well being, since I can't watch them while I play but my brother plays on team and his GF was there to watch my 3yr old. W knew this. So I will take it for what it is worth, which is not much for now. Will not call her and will see all of them on Tuesday for our dinner night out
