Originally Posted By: alamo76

For me I did it because I felt her assumption that I would do certain things needed to be straightened out. I needed that to be a boundary.


Setting boundaries validates our self-worth. Unless you value other people's opinions of you more than you do your own.

What do you feel that you did well?
What do you feel that you can improve?

I am being the possibility of:

1) Integrity
2) Loving myself completely.
3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.

"It's do-able." What are the actions now?