We have a daughter that is 8 years old. I have known about the OM for about 4 months now. The most important thing to me right now is to have my family back but i know there are steps that i must take. I have read Divorce Remedy but to be honest, havent done much to follow it. I have done the whole begging and pleading thing but find it next to impossible to cut off communication with her because it hurts so much. I think I may have put the final nail in the divorce coffin today because I threatened to take our daughter away. My W is Bi-Polar and Borderline Personality Disorder (diagnosed two weeks ago) so I knew that threat would be enough to get her to respond to my texts while her and OM were out of town for the weekend. Yes I know that was a very stupid move but I hurt so much and like ANY attention I can get from my W. I want to hire a DB Coach but money is waaaay too tight right now and I have no idea when that will change so I have to turn to the forums for help.
