Be sure you present a pleasant attitude as you go about your business.
He's not the center of your attention today so it has him baffeled. Good!
He's in your bed. That's funny. Sounds like the actions of a little boy.
When bedtime comes, you go about your nighly routine and get in on your side of the bed as if he were no where around. If you read before going to sleep.....then do so. When you're ready to sleep, just say "good-night", turn over with your back to him, and that's that!
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!