It's Time To Rock; Part I

[♪CS♪]

You guys are right. Thanks.

[grr]

no!!!

[ninelives]

Happy Bday country, BTW, check out my new thread. Hope for me which means maybe hope for you since our sitchs were so similar.

But you know the WAW, anything is possible

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The drop off was uneventful. Another hug, shorter this time. She baked me cupcakes!

[Busting Mode]

Sweet.

[♪CS♪]

Kind of funny, in a sick and disturbing sort of way...

I had mentioned to my W yesterday that I was going to try to find something to do last night and get out of the house. I ended up having a good night, hanging out with a friend, music, a couple beers etc. Got a surge of text from W during this time.

*pic of D* "happy Bday dadda!"
"_____ says happy bday!"
"hope you are having fun!"

I ignored them all. Then towards the end of the night I just said "Thanks again for everything, it was a good bday"

She responded right back saying "hope you found something fun to do!" No response from me.

I have to admit, it is kind of a nice feeling when I know I have her thinking so much about me. But I also have to just take it for what it is, can't assume anything.

Thanks everyone for the quick advice yesterday. REALLY glad I didn't bring anything up or show any signs of pursuing.

[islander]

Sounds like you are fling great and on your way.

[Denver_2010]

Shouldn't have responded at all Country. JMO.

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Denver

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You might be right Denver, in fact you probably are. She was just so nice all weekend, I guess I got sucked into it.

One thing she said when I was picking up my D on Saturday I just remembered. She said "wish I could be there" Referring the the get together at my parents for my bday. Probably just one of those things that slip out, but even so, interesting.

Then just the presents, the card, the cupcakes yesterday, I guess I just felt like she was reaching out a bit.

I know I cannot expect anything, all that will do is set me up for disappointment. I will continue to move forward. But, I guess I did feel like I got a glimpse inside her head this weekend. I think she is very confused.

[gr8 day 2B alive]

CS,

I was ready to reply to you the other day but your thread was locked and you didn't start a new one. So let me regain my thoughts on this:
I think I was afraid to post it, I know it will not be popular, but sent my W the following this morning after the OM's CW called:

"OM's CW left me a message. She wanted to know if you two were living together. I will not return the message. I am very uncomfortable with D in this situation. I really hope you are not subjecting her to your affair. I am worried about what OM's CW could be capable of. I trust you to use good judgement through this."

I won't post it verbatim, but she just responded ensuring me D was safe. No answer as to whether they are living together, or what she subjects our D to.

A little bit later she sends me a message asking how I am feeling and letting me know that D is doing well and she is planting flowers on her patio.

How special for her.

I guess with the last message I at least didn't P her off at me. But I am not responding any more, she is on her own with this craziness. I have to decide whether I believe this is a dangerous situation or not for our D, and if so take action, if not, let it go.

Meaning of Safe
from what what?OM W?
Or safe from being exposed to a predator who goes after M women to break up families?
I would not allow my kids to be exposed to this. IMO

Now with all the latest events.
To say the least your W doesn't know what she wants.
And for you to be head over heels with the attention she is showing you will only leave you disappointed.

She shows you ONE act of kindness and you fall to pieces thinking it's the turning point.

Let her continue to text you all she wants. She playing both sides right now.

Remember to think process and then act.

Also all her texts are using your D in them. She using her to get a response from you.
You will know when she really means to be nice to you.

Be strong, don't make the all too common mistake of thinking everything is OK.
gr8