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Originally Posted By: alamo76
Originally Posted By: Busting Mode
Or they might turn beautiful with your son liberated in the middle.


Not sure what you meant here...

Originally Posted By: Busting Mode
Big talk. big escape clause.


Or here...




In the first quote you had said "Things might turn ugly, with son caught in the middle." I was suggesting things might turn beautiful, with son being freed from all the fighting.



In the second, you had said something like "I would have followed her to the ends of the earth IF she was committed..."

That sounded to me like a way to give up and then rationalize you did your best.

But only you know your limitations, your potential, and your truth.


I am being the possibility of:

1) Integrity
2) Loving myself completely.
3) Things flowing naturally between us, without any fear or attachment to the outcome.

"It's do-able." What are the actions now?