I guess I really need a firm grip on 180's. I "thought" that was what I am doing. It appears it is "perusing"

Today H is home, upstairs watching golf and working. Normally, I would have suggested that we go to lunch (every Sunday) Today, nope not a word to him about plans. I sense he is uncomfortable. I went to run an errand and he was surprised that I didn't ask about afternoon plans.

This is the first day in 3 months that he has taken to the bedroom (my bedroom)Not sure what to think about that.

me:51
H: 48
No kids together
M:14 years
seperated:Ask him to GET OUT 3/21/11
Piecing 09/14