A New Day?

[Denver_2010]

Islander - one thing that my DB coach told me very early on with my sitch, and I have found it to be true, is that once our W's begin to draw closer to us, they will go back and forth. In other words, it can be expected that your W will draw closer, then pull away again, then draw closer, pull away... etc. This happens because they are unsure of what is going on within themselves and they reflexively pull away bc they don't want to give us the wrong impression as to their intentions.

I have found this VERY true of my sitch. But it is becoming less and less... my W is drawing closer every week. But I still feel the pulling away at times.

Patience my friend. Go read my thread ... I have had to be VERY patient with some things that I never though myself capable of ... I've done this by focusing on keeping those thoughts of impatience to myself or expressing them here... and focusing on the positives when I do feel impatient.

Keep your eyes on the big picture... not the short term. That is the key to this.

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Denver