Cas I am so mad with your H on your behalf.. to go so far forward leading you to believe his wants some form of reconcilation and then to back pedal faster than ever is just cruel IMHO!
I agree with the other ladies, again dont chase go back to your own life behave as if you are done with his stupity.. I wouldnt remind him about wednesday as honestly I'd want to feel wanted and pursued not to feel I was taken out by some one who I had persuaded to take me.. If it took that much persuading then hes not ready, if on wednesday he turns up trumps with a proper proposal for an evening out then that is up to you to decide if you want to go..
My only parting words are PUT YOURSELF FIRST ALWAYS from now on hun! He may not want to move too fast but you need to not let that be a reason for him to abuse your love and wanting to give him a chance.
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Once lost but now found and happily married again!