Well, it is looking like a good weekend. Last night I went and saw a GREAT show. Really one of those you do not expect. Local band, and they just put on one of the best live performances I have seen. If you are ever in Sacramento, check them out, "The Troublemakers"
Anyways, after that, I woke up this morning and bought myself a present. A new guitar and an amp. Been playing all day, good stuff. I have a lesson in an hour, can't wait.
My W is actually meeting me there with my D so I can take her up to my parents house. That should be a good time.
I got a card from my W's parents. It was actually very nice, they expressed a lot of sadness over the whole situation. The saying on the card was perfect "We can not become what we need to be by remaining what we are." I called them to thank them, they did not answer but I left a message.
The W has been sending me a lot of pics and stuff this weekend. I have not replied to them at all. I did have to call her to discuss getting my D for the weekend, and that was a short and pleasant call.
I feel great, I only hope I can keep it. I know from experience now, it is still easy to backslide, but for now, I'll take it.
Hang in there everyone and enjoy a wonderful weekend.
"Pleasant and unpleasant are subjective, determined by a person or, more specifically, by a particular consciousness"
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
So my W met me yesterday to drop off our D. It was a nice exchange. After telling her many times there was nothing I wanted for my BDay, she did end up getting me something. I was surprised, but it is nice. I actually went for a hug to thank her, it ended up being a bit more than I expected. I don't even know if it was me holding on or her, but it was a long, nice hug. Felt good.
The present was small but very thoughtful, picture frames that hold record albums (I'm a record nut). Then there is the card. Here is what it says:
"Happy happy birthday from us to you! We are thinking about you. I hope this year turns out to be a wonderful time for you. You are already making wonderful changes... We are proud of you.
Love,
Us"
I can't help but analyze it but I know I shouldn't. Any thoughts on how I should thank her?
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
I am going to see my W again today to drop my D back off. Still trying to figure out if I should say anything about what she wrote in the card. I even thought about seeing if she wanted to spend a little time together again.
Any thoughts? I'm spinning a little bit.
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Happiness is not something ready made. It comes from your own actions.
Still trying to figure out if I should say anything about what she wrote in the card. I even thought about seeing if she wanted to spend a little time together again
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I would say no to both. Just let it be and don't take what was said in the card as a green light to pursue.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
