Been married to W for 10 years and now she wants out. She says that she has not had feelings for me for at least 5 years and is seeing someone else. We have been separated for over a month now and up till two weeks ago we were still intimate despite her affair. Now she has all of a sudden decided she is happy with the new guy and says there is no chance for us to ever be together again. Two weeks ago she told me that ideally she would like to break it off with him and work on our marriage. Why the sudden change? Is this the end? I am lost and hurting badly without my W/best friend. She no longer answers my texts or emails. Please help.