PR, I have been away for from the forums, but my situation has changed drastically. My advice to you is to detach immediately. You are holding on to the thought that you can change him and it may be why you continue to allow him to stay over.
Let him go fo now and really, really focus on yourself. It was one of the best advice I received here. I almost let my marriage destroy me - literally and physically. I know how hard it is to detach, because you think that your spouse will think you don't care and that he will say to himself that what is doing is right. No, don't care what he thinks - detach for you - treat your self better than you ever has - learn to love YOU again.
If he wakes up from his own pain, then so be it - but HE has to do that himself. Please take care of you.
OLD THREAD-http://tinyurl.com/y98nuty Me 44 H 51 T 15 yrs M 9+ yrs No Kids "You may be deceived if you trust too much, but you will live in torment unless you trust enough."
