Thank you for your support, i do feel better at the moment and have a new lease of "db life". I can guarantee tonight when he drops her off she will go on fb waiting for me but i WILL NOT be there i am not available. She has eaten all the cake im afraid, i love who she was and maybe one day my wife will return and i mean my wife not this person who i know longer know. I have studid hard the MLC and its scarey but she fits so well, i dont have any blame for her as i do feel this is out of he control also, so see what the week brings, i hope for you all its a positive one and if not for your marriage then at least for you as loving human beings i know you are....kevc
