Originally Posted By: Bobby
I told my wife had she stayed in the house and not told me to date and move on that the affair would never have happened.


So tit for tat?

Is that how it works?

Bobby you have professed there was no R with OW and no affair.

You know an emotional affair is an affair don't you?

Do you think she may have a point?

I am not telling you to sacrifice yourself for this I am trying to get you to see your part in this.

You mentioned defending yourself.

Defending what exactly?

Your opinion of the situation?

Something she interprets differently than you?

If it stings it is probably something YOU need to address in YOU.

Everything else should be water off a duck's back right?

My goal is to some day be the person my dog thinks I am