26yrs is this the end

[Busting Mode]

Thank you k!

That really helps me.

Now it is easier for me to see where you are at.

Congratulations! It is so great to see you getting off the rollercoaster!

I'm also finding it difficult sometimes to "hold back" when I feel a need to initiate conversations.

But then I realize that my neediness does not serve either me or my wife.

EVERY SINGLE ONE of the best conversations that she and I have had lately, she was the one who initiated, and I was the one who was really cool.

Whenever I initiated or I lost my cool, I set us both back even further.

Keep up! You're doing great!