I feel that every time I do/try a 180 and talk about it here, you are the first one to say that I am not listening. IDK, but maybe I have not clearly said what I didn't ever do for him prior to the bomb
Katie, Bond is very wise about DBing, plus he is giving you information from the VP of a man. He's not hounding you, he really cares or he wouldn't be putting in this much time toward your stitch.
I'm not sure what 180's you are refering to, but it often takes doing the opposite of what you should have done before the bomb. Maybe that is what's confusing.
The best way I know how to put explain it in a few words is it's like3 a girl playing hard to get. Only, you're not playing...it's for real.
If you make it so easy for him while he's treating you like dirt....why should he EVER think he should treat you any better?
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
