The Lies and Deception Killing Me

[Yoyowife]

Abbey,
I visit the boards once in a while. I was on here for a while fighting for my marriage, but it was not meant to be. I was the needy wife who let him get away too much. I should have followed LRT. Who knows, things may have turned out differently.

Reading your situation makes me so sad. Your husband is having his cake and eating it too. My husband cheated on me and moved out. I let him cake eat badly because I was so afraid it would push him a way further.

Now, I believe if I had been stronger and made him accountable things may have been different.

A book that I suggest that you get is James Dobson's "Love Must Be Tough". If you will look on Amazon.com, many people say that this book goes hand in in hand with "Divorce Remedy".

Please do not let him walk all over you. You are a wonderful person and deserve so much more. Believe in yourself and he will soon see the strong Abbey and believe in you also. The needy Abbey is not attractive to him right now.

Hugs, Yoyo