He conquers who endures..............

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2step, i have been following your thread and also listening to your advice on other threads.

My 2 cents. You are at a crossroads that NOBODY can determine which way to go. Nobody on this site, you or even your wife. And thats what [censored] so bad. There is no script or crystal balls. Its all about what YOU can endure and what YOU want to interpret from the conversation.

I think TG is correct in that she is angry right now and the WAW will say ANYTHING and EVERYTHING when they are angry. Hell my W said that she hasnt loved me in 11 years once and then the next day resinded that comment. Who know what she is really thinking.

No doubt she is PI$$ed at you right now, and that is surely clouding somethings. Listen to Sandi, she is very good and was a WAW herself. I always read her responses as she pulls no punches.

My heart goes out to you man. You cant understand why they wont believe you when you say things will be different but my Counciler told me that when they are done, they are done. And it may not change. But then again it may, she may be done for now but keep making those changes for yourself and IF she does see them as perminant and real. Than she MAY come back but even if she doesnt, you have improved. You are in the present and not wallowing in the past.

Hang in there 2step. Better days ahead one way or another.

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