I text H this morning but he was resistant to anything I said. I took a risk and went to his place and spoke with him. When I rang the doorbell he asked me in and offered me a coffee. We sat and spoke for a short time. He got a bit annoyed about the whole thing and told me that it was up to me. I can either be friends knowing he is still with ow or I can choose not to be friends but he is not giving up ow just because I don't like him being with her.
D, my spy tells me the portrait has been replaced with a photo frame of 4 photos of her. She is very definitely still on the scene.
D goes on camp this week and H and I had made tentative plans to do something Wed night. He said he was no longer interested in going out but I sensed that his threat was empty. He needed to go to get ready for work so I insisted staying until he agreed to go out and I was being quite silly and slightly flirty at the same time. He agreed to come out, just to get rid of me. At the same time I got two genuine hugs and to chaste kisses but on the lips.
In the brief time we spoke H said he didn't want complications and issues and I agreed. I sense that he has given too much of his inner thoughts lately and he's on the verge of retreat. So......I see I have three options a. go dark b. make no contact until Tues night with a suggestion of somewhere to go and hope he agrees to come or c. send a few quick texts to touch base over the next few days and then touch base for Wed night. Thoughts please
