Update for today. I'm doing well with my 180 and GAL. I lost 18 pounds in the last year based on my annual physical. Some of that is due to me working out, reducing beer and junk consumption for the last month and some is probably stress related since W dropped bomb 5 months ago. The hardest thing to do is loving detachment and giving space. W and I have drifted apart in the last year or so because we led parallel lives, but now I am doing the GAL and trying to make my half of our parallel lives more fun, but we seem to be doing less things together. Should I make an attempt to schedule some together activities? I feel that continuing the way things are now just puts more distance between us. Right now the W is getting ready to go out with her GF and she probably will not return until morning.
Me 46 W 43 M 17 S 14 D 11 ILYB 9/2010 EA began July/August 2010 ? PA began Nov/Dec 2010 ? I began DB in Jan 2011 I filed 7/12/11 Kids and I moved out 7/30/11 I'm in it for the kids and me.
