Hey Tank. Looks like you are making progress. Seems as though your W is beginning to see outside of the fog. That is a good sign. Keep DBing. Don't let up.

Take care of yourself for you, though. I know it is difficult to not think the changes are for her. I have the same problems. I am always trying to make changes in myself that I think my W would appreciate and not changes that matter to me. I know. It is what the vets on here preach, but I think there is truth in it.

Keep it up.

Me - 33 W - 33
S - 9 months
M - 3 years
T - 5.5 years
Bomb - 12/14/10 ILYBNILWY
PA discovered - 1/18/11
PA began - 3/22/10
Separated