You've probably heard this before, but you are inspiring me today. I am at this point of deciding if -- based on how things have been playing out and how my wife is behaving and things she's saying -- my wife is truly done and absolutely wants to move on with her life. Yet, I want to keep fighting for her, but I just don't know how to break through, especially now that we live separatedly. All she brings up nowadays is logistical stuff. When were separated, but under one roof, she would at least talk about my issues, her problems with me and us, etc. Now...nothing.

One of her love languages is words, so I'm starting to think that the 180s and GALs that I'm doing are blind to her. Of course, I'm just guessing, but I'm beginning to think if she files for divorce, I would be closing my door for her too.


M37, S5
M-7y; T-8y
Separated 060410
Wife/son moved 022611
Wife serves d-papers 032011
I filed child custody 042012; obtained custody 070312
Bifurcated 103112