Thanks Seeking. There's definite movement. He tells me she has moved from the area but I don't think I can honestly continue to keep things going in this way. I need to be true to myself. I can't chase what's not available. He said that her moving in with him was always intended to be temporary. Still strange because she moved her son from his school when she moved in with H and H says she has moved away from the area. The portrait is gone. Coincidence? He starts communicating with me again after months of silence. I am so confused and so annoyed that I got sucked in again. I always believe the best of him and once again I shouldn't have.