I've thought about that too Lotus. I know that my W needs to hear this kind of stuff from me, but at the same time, I wonder if I'm not giving her the opportunity to drag some of this out longer than it otherwise would be if I backed off a little or began to ask for some answers from her. I honestly don't know.

M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce