H is off doing his own thing this weekend; home last night, flying today and home tonight but he text me lots last night while I was at swimming and we've been messaging on skype this morning.
^^^^^^^Pretty cool stuff!
Originally Posted By: dolphin_05
So, once again shows how my mind can so easily move to the negative. When H said he was busy today I automatically wondered about ow.
Don't you think that given what you've been through you would probably be wondering this same thing if a different new beau told you that he was busy over the weekend???? I've read others say that they have the same trust issues with new R's.
Originally Posted By: Lost Rabbit
dont know about you ladies but the one thing I have learnt out of this upheaval is that you can always afford to step back admire the view and let things settle for a bit.. having always been the one to dive in and try and fix things and apply the lotion and bandage it has been a revelation to me, in fact quite ironically the "poke my awe in" girl has gone so much my new Team Leader suggested that I should have the confidence to chip in more often, perhaps some thing he will regret in hindsight lol!
I know that some of you are on the verge of some new things and as always we want to rush in and fix things but please dont take the quiet time and allow things to come to the brew slowly, it will have a better quality taste of victory for leaving it just a tad longer.
Rabbit wrote this ^^^^^^^^^^ on my thread (BTW, Rabbit you are MORE than welcome to post on my thread since your thread is "lost in the sands of time") and it's a wonderful reminder for you (and me) right now.
