Hi Hope - thanks for dropping in. H's don't work that way I told my H a few days before he left, that if our lives were in one of my cheesy romance novels, one of us would get in a car accident or something and we'd suddenly snap out of the fog and realize what we meant to each other. I say crap like that all the time, it's my sense of humor...so he laughed and said, or we'd have amnesia or something, right?
Life is too short - he sees that as, "So I should do what makes me "happy" and what I want"
You see it as, we should respect the people we love and look at the big picture and not take them for granted.
good luck -- babies are freaking out, ready for bed here.
Faith is, at one and the same time, absolutely necessary and altogether impossible. --Stanislaw Lem