Alright here's the second part. She calls me after work. We begin to discuss the conversation. She told me how much it hurt her for me to say those things to her. She said that after we talked she went out to her car and cried. She called our daycare lady crying and asked to talk to our D2. She began to cry just telling me this. Told me how she cries at night not being with our D2. I did apologize for what I said. She is letting her guard down and telling me that this is really killing her. She tells me about all of the stressful things that are going on with her family. Some crazy stuff. We talked and talked for about and hour. I think she did feel good venting and talking to me like we used to. I know I enjoyed just talking to her like we used to. At the end of the convo things were pretty good between us. I told her I was taking our D2 to the pool and that she was welcome to join us. She said that she would pass this time but would consider joining us in the future. I told her I needed a babysitter next friday night bc I am volunteering at the american legion. She quickly accepted.
She texted me today that she was gonna stop by after work to pick up her mail. I was home when she arrived. We had some light convo. She seemed a little edgy with me. I think she gets this way coming to the house bc it pisses her off that all her things are here with me and she is living with her mom. She thinks I am just loving having this house to myself. She told me that she is going to put the house on craigslist. She is still edgy and brings it up that I shouldn't throw it at her that I don't want the house to sell. That she could just stop paying her half of the mortgage and it would go to foreclosure. I know she wouldn't do this bc she is very fiscally responsible and wouldn't want to crush her credit like that. I just agreed and let her vent.
We went outside, so she could take a couple of pics of the house. Before she left I told her a funny story about our D2. I had her really laughing. She finally put her claws away. As she got into her car, she wished me a good weekend, I just nodded back. She has our D2 this weekend and I will stay dark.
