Thanks for the bump InAPickle. I was worried no one was responding. I know its not that people dont care but people have busy lives. I have been trying so hard to detach. I havent heard from him in so long, until today. Ive gone dark for many weeks and today he texted me. It was a text about my computer so no big deal i guess. But then when i told him my computer has not been working right he asked if i'd let him try and fix it. I was kinda shocked by that. I thanked him for the offer but didnt say yes or no. The last few days i have this feeling that this D is going to happen. I still want to try. I realize the A was imorally and wrong and devastating but i know people recover from them. I just wish I knew where all of this was going to end up. I dont want my old marriage back but i want to rebuild a new one. We'll see if there is anymore communication from him this weekend. THanks everyone.
