I think I am going to stop focusing on her moving back in. I need to slow down and take things at her pace. If she decides to move back in, it will be because she wants to, not bc I begged her. Thinking about it that way puts me a little more at ease.

I also told her that I did not need to know any of the details of the A. I know what happens bs two people. That is not my focus anyway. I can get past that. I just try to imagine starting a new relationship with my W, and realize that she had relationships bf she met me, just like we both did.


BITS

M:34 W:28
SD:9
D:6 (pr)
M:3 T:6
Separated 1/16/11
ILYBNILWY 10/25/10
PA discovered 11/12/10, began about 10/1/10

I am not who I was, I am being remade, I am new...