I think I am going to stop focusing on her moving back in. I need to slow down and take things at her pace. If she decides to move back in, it will be because she wants to, not bc I begged her. Thinking about it that way puts me a little more at ease.
I also told her that I did not need to know any of the details of the A. I know what happens bs two people. That is not my focus anyway. I can get past that. I just try to imagine starting a new relationship with my W, and realize that she had relationships bf she met me, just like we both did.
BITS
M:34 W:28 SD:9 D:6 (pr) M:3 T:6 Separated 1/16/11 ILYBNILWY 10/25/10 PA discovered 11/12/10, began about 10/1/10
I am not who I was, I am being remade, I am new...