W left in Dec, She said ILYBNILWU. Lack of intamcy, me not showing her enough affection and not being there when she needed. Says she can forgive but not forget.
Filed three weeks ago and divorce to be final in two months.
Only contact is through text message and only about finances and our dog. We have no kids.
Read DR this week and found it very informative on how/why my marriage is where it is.
I have been setting goals and doing things to make myself "new" and more interesting. Mostly for myself cause W and I don't see each other much if at all.
I have been very upbeat in my texts giving only the info needed . Bacically have been in the dark, but that is also how I was leading up to the months prior to our split.
As badly as I would like to do a telephone coaching session, simply cannot afford one as I have been laid off recently.
Time is running out and I'm pretty sure I can't stop this train. I know life will go on, but we were great together, we just ended up in a marital slump the last 1 1/2 years.
I have read alot of the posts on this website and it has helped me through this trying time.
Would someone please give me some input on whether or not you think my approach is on track for my situation.
