So H hugged me Monday and Tuesday before leaving, didn't see him Wednesday, and then yesterday he left without hugging me and I was devastated. Why does this one little thing throw me into a complete tailspin??? How can I stop being so affected by every little thing he does or doesn't do? I need very specific instructions, because I'll think I'm doing good, detaching a bit, but then it hits me out of nowhere and I'm a mess (not in front of him, but after he leaves).


Me- 35
H- 36
M- 7
T- 9
D3, D5
Bomb 1/21/11
EA/PA began 12/10?
Discovered A 3/2/11
S- 3/3/11
OW gone- 4/27/11
H says he wants to reconcile, but lacking action