Standing up to the punches

[Redo]

So wife calls again afternoon and chit-chats on the phone about daughter's well-visit to the doctor. Just light talk about tomorrow's ceremony. Funny, anyone hearing this would have never suspected that we are about to get divorced.

Sad how far things have come. Just 2 weeks back, i would have been down after this talk, knowing what was coming next. Now...I have just accepted the inevitable. I am being nice to wife. No arguments. But I am also setting the boundaries. Like yesterday she said that L wanted my credit card number. I did not give but asked to why lawyer needed it. W emailed back asking why i was being defensive about the number. I told her that all i wanted to know was the reason. Thats all. Then she emailed the reason. Usually i would have felt bad that i upset my wife. I would have said 'sorry' or something to that effect. I did NOT do it this time. I knew that my request was not irrational. Is she took it the wrong way i cannot help it. Sometimes i feel sad that we have come to this point. But i guess if this did not happen, i would never have realized how destructive i was being to myself and to my relationship with my wife...