The year of not my problem

[ClingingToHope]

I'm getting better at the kid time too. Last year I was very, very protective of my time with them. Now ... if it makes sense to give up some time for their good then I do it.

I gave up asking STBXW why a long, long time ago. I still think about why she chose to bankrupt both of us -- and perhaps her mother -- and limit the resources available to our daughters. I don't think I'll ever stop totally.