......are these itty bitty baby steps?

[Lost Rabbit]

Hope you dont mind GAG but I thought Id share some really good moments in your thread.. one because I want to encourage you ladies and also because my thread has got lost in the sands of time and probably best left unrescurrected lol!

As I said in Cas's thread that at the beginning you have to learn to cherish crumbs as later on they will start looking like a gift of cake, rather ironic as at some point all our H's have had the lions share of our cake and eaten without a thought for sharing!

My reason to share is that for the first time my H has pre-empted my need for his affection, we normally go out on a friday night as we both have busy weekend hobbies and usually collapse in a heap saturday evening, and get ready for the onslaught of work on sunday evening. Much to my delight H suggested we went out thursday as he was heading on friday night and when we were out at dinner he spent most of the evening referring to OUR things, even when I thank him for sharing his dish he replied its our **** dish not mine..

He has also instigate a weekend away for some US time before I point out we havent had much US time..

I dont know about you ladies but the one thing I have learnt out of this upheaval is that you can always afford to step back admire the view and let things settle for a bit.. having always been the one to dive in and try and fix things and apply the lotion and bandage it has been a revelation to me, in fact quite ironically the "poke my awe in" girl has gone so much my new Team Leader suggested that I should have the confidence to chip in more often, perhaps some thing he will regret in hindsight lol!

I know that some of you are on the verge of some new things and as always we want to rush in and fix things but please dont take the quiet time and allow things to come to the brew slowly, it will have a better quality taste of victory for leaving it just a tad longer..

Once again hope you dont mind GAG hope you have a great weekend ladies Hugs Rabbit x