I was just checking out another marriage forum on infidelity, and they strongly support sending an "exposure letter" to all my W's friends and family and all the OM's friends as well to publically out the EA/PA? This is exactly the opposite of what I read in DR and DB. I am very confused by this conflicting advice. Many people on the other forum consider detachment to be passive enabling and ineffective. I am trying to come to terms with all this conflicting advice and I need some guidance.
Me 46 W 43 M 17 S 14 D 11 ILYB 9/2010 EA began July/August 2010 ? PA began Nov/Dec 2010 ? I began DB in Jan 2011 I filed 7/12/11 Kids and I moved out 7/30/11 I'm in it for the kids and me.
