Wow things are changing, but he is gonna be like a rabbit in headlights the slightest to quick movement is gonna send him running.. He needs to build the percieved very fragile trust he has in you, obviously its not as fragile as he sees it, but looking at it from my pov you have to remind yourself that the once solid trust you once had no longer exist and can no longer exist in its old format.. Take me for instance now I could not ever give up my job like I had previously to bomb day.. I can no longer trust him to pay my bills, or completely have my best interests at heart, perhaps one day that will return but H has to rebuild my trust. The same goes for your H he percieves himself to be the wounded party.. One thing that is good is he beginning to own his end of the stick, so perhaps when he shows signs of wanting to repair his end of the stick, like apolagising to your parents, you could ask what things you can do to facilitate this or do you just need to keep out of this, give him the choice! Starting to own ones stick is a big leap forward, some thing if Im wrong forgive me Sanderika is missing from her scenario.. Until they are totally willing to accept some responsibility it cannot move forward, whilst they are still in blame culture there is no room for manouvres. Just keep remind yourself when he means slow he really means reverse almost, allow him to lead you at the speed he wants to go, dont push, although you can coax, the next stage is leading them to discuss what you need to hear..
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