Reality check this morning. H is in California, in Newport Beach. Woke up this morning to the news and struggling to check on my people in Japan (all ok, thank God) and then the news that a wave may hit California. I know now they aren't expecting much to hit but of course I was worried at the news. It just puts it into perspective.

I only wish my H would see it as a wake up call too. Life is short. Stuff, bills, jobs, money... come and go. He woke up to the tsunami watch and wasn't worried. He's dealing now with someone using his credit card. As if he wasn't already at his limit. I know he's frustrated but life could be so much worse.


Me - 38, 2nd M, no living children, 1 forever 6 yr old boy
H - 44, 3rd M, twins 16

Dating 4/07
M 10/08
Bomb #1 12/10
Bomb #2 1/11
Bomb #3 12/11